THE FIXATION ON FIXING ONE ANOTHER

One might say and ask these:
“What is wrong with you?”
“If they’ll only change.”
“How can I change a person?”
“They are a hopeless case to change.”
“How to know if a person has changed?”

There is an endless need to fix other people in our family, community, personal and professional relationships.
The focus is on differences, looking at one another in the eyes of criticism, superiority, and inferiority, conditioned by the created separation beliefs influenced by the egotistic belief system.

To know if a person changes, take a look at yourself first. Observe and compare your past and present:
Way of living life
Way of thinking and reasoning
Beliefs
Mood and feelings
Behavior
Reactions to situations and people
Desires and satisfactions
Habits
Outlook and perceptions
Concerns, challenges, and problems
Choices and decision-making processes
Body and health
Preference in music, fashion, food, and friends